What could i do to cheer up my cousin who got pregnant and is feeling blue about it?

this girl has been my best friend since the day we were born. she recently found out she is 2 months pregnant by her ex BF who is a total psycho jerk who has opted to not support her and instead stay with his new GF. i really really really want to do something super special for her that would cheer her up and that would give her courage. any ideas? i thought of bringing her flowers and a card but i don't know if thats good enough... ???

What could i do to cheer up my cousin who got pregnant and is feeling blue about it?
for one I am glad to hear this because I almost gave up on the idea of there actually being real genuine girls as friends since I never could find one so Im glad to help you in my opinion I would do something else just because flowers are sweet and kind and all but normally its a guy bf husband etc.. that would give that kind of gift and it might make her feel worse or even upset that its not from her ex or another guy or because she might feel like its out of pity even if it is you dont want her to think it is out of pity so I would take out go to a nice little place to eat then go to get manicure and pedicures if there is a beach go lay out on the beach with her or if you have the funds maybe a spa getaway or sumthn or think of what she likes to do and go there and do it with her maybe play some arcades or something go see a funny movie just not "knocked up" might upset her more because the guy is there for her unlike that j/off ex of hers i wish you the best of luck girl =)
Reply:I think she'd better have an abortion, if it's still possible.
Reply:Organize %26amp; pay for a consultation with a Dula or Midwife so that she can plan her pregnancy in full knowledge of how her body will be affected %26amp; what she can do to make her experience less stressful.



Pre Natal massage is ALWAYS a good thing!
Reply:anything that you do to show you care is great !!! talk to her , give her your support ,flowers, a movie or just talking ! shes lucky to have you as a friend and cousin !
Reply:go for a girls night out. skip the bar and have some good food. sometimes just talking helps.
Reply:just be there for her
Reply:I would say flowers and a card is a great idea. Maybe take her to lunch too. Then you girls can talk. You can listen to her, I'm sure she needs to vent. She is scared. Then you can assure her that she's your best friend and you will be there for her even if the sperm donor is not.
Reply:Get her a book with full color pictures of developing fetuses. The info is amazing as well as the pictures. You'd be surprised at what happens after a baby is born. My sisters bf denied the baby and basically stayed away during the entire pregnancy. (also with his new gf) BUT, as soon as he "heard" she was in labor at the hospital, surprise surprise he showed up! After seeing this miracle come into the world with 10 tiny fingers, and 10 tiny toes, he melted. And that little boy has had him wrapped around his finger for 2 years. My sister and him opted not to stay together, but they maintain a friendly relationship for him. And he knows that he has a mom and dad that love him very much. If the father shows no interest, and she cannot or does not want to raise it by herself, she can always put it up for adoption. It is one of the most selfless acts one can do. Best of luck to your friend. You are a great friend to be so concerned.
Reply:go and buy here the cuties baby out fit you can find then write her a poem in a card on how much you care and will be they for her i would love to have you as my best friend good on your for think of her
Reply:Take her out to dinner, or you could plan a girls day, going to the spa or taking a hike at a scenic area nearby and have a picnic, or maybe even sign up for an art of ceramics class to take for a day. Find something that she loves to do, or would enjoy, to take her mind off of things.
Reply:why don't you both go for pedicures/manicures and then lunch?? She could focus on something else, or have the opportunity to talk about it w/ her trusted friend/cousin...good for you for trying to lift her spirits...she is doing a great thing by raising her little baby...the guy sounds like a jerk, and it is very commendable that she is taking the responsibility...she is lucky to have you for support...
Reply:Whata sweet friend you are! Poor thing...she is carrying a blessing, whether she knows it or not. God gave her the gift. That gift is part of her, not only the bad BF. Try to explain that to her. Take the flower moneya nd get hera facial...or pedicure? :) Can you take her to rent some comedies? get some popcorn, etc..have fun! Tell her she is special and will have a special little "someone" in a few months. (I have a 17 yr old whose BIO father was a psycho jerk, too. He was fine until he found out I was pregnant....if her BF really is a jerk and not just "father shy", she shouldn't be alone with him.)
Reply:Take her shopping for some cool maternity clothes.... Get her excited about the baby! No matter the situation, the baby is a blessing.... Be there for her and make sure she knows that you always will be! Love her, a situation like that is tough!
Reply:How nice of you!



In the immediate you'll want to make her excited about the baby, so you could go shopping for some cute gender neutral clothes/toys or some cute maternity outfits or a baby book.



Later on, she'll start to feel unattractive and then I suggest a pedicure at the minimum (I'm 9 months pregnant and havent' been able to touch my toes for the past 2 months).
Reply:If she's planing on keeping the baby, and is happy about the baby regardless. you can buy something like a teddy bear for the baby, and a card and let her know that even if this isn't how she wanted it to happen, that the baby will be loved . That she has you as friend that will support her in her decisions and be there for her. Or take her out to the movies so she can know that just because, she's having a baby it doesn't mean she can't have fun.



If she has decided not to keep the baby, support her decision regardless of your opinion and let her know that things will be better and it may be for the best. that you are there for here and will always be there for her. then go somewhere out to lunch or just out but not near children.
Reply:Throw her the biggest baby shower and invite all her family and friends. I think that would cheer her up. Talk to her about it and say that this is a good thing you will have a baby and you will get to raise it and you will be happy about it.
Reply:Maybe you should take her out to eat to her favorite restaurant??????????? Go to a movie. Dont let her isolate herself, she will feel more lonely.......
Reply:sure do what u thought and just be there for her. also u could go out shopping with her her to look for baby things and help her pick out things and even throw her a baby shower....she will have fun.
Reply:Let her know that you are there for her, and will be by her side through the whole thing.



Then rent a movie that you can both laugh at.



Continue being her friend will be the best cheer up!
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