2012年2月14日星期二

What do I say with flowers?

OK, here's the situation. I've been having lunch with a woman at work for a few months now, although she's always busy when it comes to going out for dinner (and she has been genuinely swamped lately). Yes, I know chances are that means she's not interested, but I can't get her out of my head. Just finding time to chat with her is usually the highlight of my day, I think she's just about the prettiest woman I've ever seen, love her sense of humor, her laugh, and she has the most amazing blue eyes. Anyway, I wanted to send her flowers, just to make it obvious that I'm interested in her in more than a "friendly" way, but I'm at a loss as to what to say in the personal note. I don't want to pour it on too thick as we'll still have to work together afterwards, but I do want to make it clear how I feel about her. It might not be possible to have it both ways, granted. Has anybody else been in this situation, and, if so, do they have any advice?

What do I say with flowers?
to the prettiet woman i have ever seen

i hear your laugh whenever I dream

the twinkle in your eyes of blue

there's no one more beautiful than you



i've been thinking about you for hours and hours

i hope your not allergic to these flowers

i can't wait till I see you again

maybe someday we can be more than just friends
Reply:send the flower and ask her out,and see how things will go from there
Reply:How 'bout: "I love our lunches together and I can't stop thinking about you the rest of the time"?



Hey, if she says no, it might be a little weird or whatever, but at least you'll know where you stand.
Reply:Can you send her the flowers, but not at work? That may draw some unwanted attention and gossip from others, and it might make her uncomfortable. I think it a sweet idea, but you probably don't want to bring a workplace relationship to the "next level" for all eyes to see--- in other words, keep doing lunches with her when you can, and keep the gifts of endearment for outside the office.


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