What to wear meeting a special guy?

Okay, this guy and I are very good friends online. He's taken, I'm not, and this is not a date or an attempt to take him away, I am just stopping by a park tomorrow where his band is playing to meet him (he knows I'm coming) and hear the show, m-a-y-b-e go for coffee afterwards. But I would like to make a good impression, as he works in clothing retail in his other job, and it may be the only time we meet, or only time for quite a while.



I am pretty but quite a bit overweight in the belly and thighs. What shall I wear?:



Matching medium-tones green and blue flowered blouse and skirt to ankles that I've had many compliments on?



Same blouse, knee length denim skirt?



Lighter blue print top that really sets off my blue eyes, one of my best features? Either of those tops and a navy cotton knee length skirt?



Please let me know which to wear. Guys' and girls' comments welcome. And, being that this is in a park -- flat sandals? Wedge heels? THANKS FOR THE HELP!! Can't wait to meet him!

What to wear meeting a special guy?
If you like him and he likes you, then wear something casual. I would suggest a knee length denim skirt and that medium tones green and blue flowered blouse. For shoes flat sandals. In my own opinion I would suggest dark bottom something a little lighter like in a blue color since it shows one of your best features. In general I think a V cut is always attractive.
Reply:Lighter blue print top and skirt to ankles it will look nice flat sandals
Reply:Make sure that the print in the blouse is small, you don't want big prints, they make you look bigger. I will go with the lighter blue print top, a pair of really nice fitting jeans and flat sandals. Keep it casual.

Despite my recommendation, the most important thing is that you wear anything that will assure that you will be comfortable.

Remember, it's not the clothe, it's the hanger!

And please please don't make use and abuse of the make up! Less is better, a nice pinkish lip gloss sounds enough to me
Reply:Try an off shoulder V-Neck. Show your bones but don't over do it with revealing your breast.

Color: Baby blue

or black on a black skirt.



Whatever you do, just make sure you try to accentuate your waist (maybe by a top gathered at the waist or a little velvet belt tied into a bow). DONNOT wear a thick belt of a contrasting color- it cuts you into 2 parts.



Stick to similar tones all over your body, its gives you height.
Reply:My suggestion is that you have to bear in mind to respect yourself and your own body. Don't dress up like you have all the curves if you don't. That will be sending a strong message that your head is not on your shoulder. You are just making a fool of yourself. So dress proper and you will look classy especially when you are pretty. Good luck. God bless.
Reply:flowered blouse, knee length denim skirt, wedge heels. whatever you do, don't wear knit fabric on the bottom - that makes most people look fatter than they really are. and NOT flat sandals - that makes your ankles/legs look stumpy.

hope this helps :-)
Reply:I think the light blue top and navy skirt and flat sandals sounds nice. but it's hard to tell without seeing them.



You should wear whatever YOU feel best in. It will carry over to your attitude if you feel confident and comfortable. You want him to like you for you anyways, not your skirt.
Reply:I would suggest wearing some nice different jeans and a cute little button down top or any cute top that might match the jeans you picked. Because if you come to dress up you will stand out like you tried to stay out and you dont want that you want him to know i am just an average girl and i dont think i am all that but i know i am pretty message.
Reply:whatev looks really hot on u
Reply:It does"nt matter what you wear because he already has eyes for someone else.Just leave him alone and eventually your own prince charming will turn up soon enough.
Reply:I would say go with what ever outfit you feel the most comfortable wearing, yes your trying to look good but it does seem like your interested in making an impression that might steer him in your direction.



I still would not get into something slutty to look cheap.



If he is interested he will let you know.
Reply:Dress sexy but not revealing tho, try wearing a dress at moderate length with a nice heels and hairstyle and makeup but not too much
Reply:maybe you ahould try wearing something dark for your shirt since u have weight in your belly. That should go with a denim skirt and probably shoes that are comfortable and cute.
Reply:I think you should wear whichever outfit you're most comfortable and confident in. Since you'll be doing a lot of standing in the park, I'd wear comfortable shoes that compliment the outfit.



Since you're just friends, try not to worry so much about what you look like, and just be yourself, and have fun.
Reply:idk about the outfit, but wedge heels YES! they are definitely sexy for the park..and him ;)
Reply:You should wear what you are. Like if you like blue more where it. If your like a punk show him your a punk. Just be yourself and dress like you normally would. thats what I would do. Hope this helped.